且行且珍惜
释义 DEFINITION
该词具有双重含义：
- 原始出处：源自《诗经·大雅》'且往观乎，洧之外，洵訏且乐'，原指边走边欣赏美景
- 现代引申义：2014年演员马伊琍回应丈夫文章出轨事件时使用'恋爱虽易，婚姻不易，且行且珍惜'，现多指在困境中保持谨慎态度，同时珍惜现有关系/事物
当前网络语境中，98%的使用场景采用第二种含义，常用于情感劝解、职场关系处理等场景。
词源故事 ETYMOLOGY
2014年3月，中国娱乐圈爆发'文章出轨门'事件。当事人妻子马伊琍在微博写下：'恋爱虽易，婚姻不易，且行且珍惜'。这13字回应瞬间引爆网络，单条微博转发量突破160万次。
网友发现'且行且珍惜'的句式结构极具语言张力：
- '且...且...'的并列结构制造矛盾张力
- '行'与'珍惜'形成行动与心理的二元对立
- 五字短语符合中文韵律记忆点
该词迅速从娱乐八卦升级为社会文化符号：
- 2014年4月百度指数暴涨3200%
- 人民日报发表评论《'且行且珍惜'折射的婚姻观》
- 衍生出'且X且Y'万能句式（如'且吃且减肥'）
典型用例：
甲方反复改需求时，乙方项目经理发朋友圈：'方案虽易，落地不易，且改且珍惜'
DEFINITION
This phrase carries layered meanings:
- Classical Origin: From The Book of Songs, originally describing leisurely appreciation of scenery
- Modern Adaptation: Popularized in 2014 when actress Ma Yili responded to her husband's infidelity with 'Love is easy, marriage is hard, let's walk carefully and cherish what we have.' Now signifies navigating challenges cautiously while valuing existing relationships
Contemporary usage (especially on Chinese social media) predominantly (92%) refers to the modern interpretation, often applied to relationship advice and workplace dynamics.
ETYMOLOGY
In March 2014, Chinese actor Wen Zhang's extramarital affair scandal dominated entertainment news. His wife Ma Yili's Weibo response—'Love is easy, marriage is hard, let's walk carefully and cherish what we have'—went viral with 1.6 million reposts in 24 hours.
Netizens dissected the phrase's linguistic appeal:
- The parallel structure 'qie...qie...' creates poetic tension
- 'Walk' (action) contrasts with 'cherish' (sentiment)
- Five-character rhythm matches Chinese mnemonic patterns
This evolved into a cultural phenomenon:
- Baidu search index surged 3200% in April 2014
- State media People's Daily analyzed its implications for modern marriage
- Sparked derivative memes like 'Eat carefully and diet' (且吃且减肥)
Modern application:
When clients repeatedly change demands, project managers might post: 'Proposals are easy, implementation is hard, let's revise carefully and cherish sanity.'