倒插门
释义 DEFINITION
基本释义：
- 字面指男方婚后定居女方家的婚姻形式（与主流'娶进来'模式相反）
- 隐含对男性社会地位下降的调侃（传统观念中需'嫁出去'的一方常被视作弱势）
现代用法：网络语境多用于戏谑性自嘲或吐槽，如程序员戏称'我这是给甲方倒插门'，已脱离实际婚姻场景，转为形容任何'反向依附'的关系状态
词源故事 ETYMOLOGY
这个源自农耕社会的古老婚俗，在21世纪经历了魔幻的语义重生。最初'倒插门'（正式称'入赘'）多发生在女方无兄弟需要延续香火的家庭，《白鹿原》中黑娃入赘的情节就展现了这种婚姻伴随的社会歧视。
2010年代，随着女性经济地位提升，该词开始出现在职场语境。百度贴吧曾有热帖《给公司倒插门三年，我的发际线也入赘了》，用婚姻隐喻加班文化，获得10万+转发。这种解构传统词汇的戏谑方式，恰似西方把'simping'（原指谄媚）转化为自嘲努力的新用法。
近年来电竞直播助推了该词的病毒传播。当主播在游戏中被队友'带飞'时，弹幕常刷'恭喜主播达成倒插门成就'。这种语义迁移完美契合了互联网时代的身份流动性——与其说在嘲笑'弱势地位'，不如说在戏弄传统权力结构本身。
例句：'本以为是我收购了这家初创公司，结果现在天天被他们的00后程序员教写代码，这波属于倒插门式并购啊！'
DEFINITION
Core meaning:
- Literally describes a man moving into his wife's household after marriage, flipping traditional Chinese patrilocal norms
- Carries subtle humor about perceived social status reversal (similar to joking about 'wearing the pants in the relationship' in Western contexts)
Contemporary usage: Widely adapted in cyber culture to humorously describe any reverse dependency scenario, like a developer saying 'I'm practically uxorilocal-marrying my client' when over-accommodating demands
ETYMOLOGY
This agricultural-era matrimonial practice has been resurrected with absurdist new meanings in digital China. Originally signifying a man marrying into a childless family to continue the bloodline (as depicted in Nobel laureate Mo Yan's novels), the term carried heavy stigma for centuries.
The semantic shift began around 2010 when Chinese netizens started using it to describe workplace dynamics. A viral post on Tieba titled 'Three Years as a Corporate Uxorilocal Husband: My Hairline Has Also Married In' compared overtime culture to traditional marriage pressures, mirroring how Western millennials reinvented 'simping' as self-deprecating humor.
Esports livestreams catapulted the term into mainstream youth slang. When gamers get carried by teammates, bullet comments flood with 'congrats on your uxorilocal achievement!' This reflects Gen-Z's fluid approach to power structures - less about mocking subordination than playfully destabilizing traditional hierarchies.
Example: 'Thought I was acquiring this startup, but now their Gen-Z coders school me daily. This is reverse-merger uxorilocal style!'