冷暴力
释义 DEFINITION
冷暴力指通过情感疏离、语言冷落、拒绝沟通等非肢体暴力方式造成心理伤害的行为。主要分为三种场景：
- 亲密关系中故意冷漠相待
- 职场中的排挤孤立
- 网络社交中的已读不回
在当代互联网语境下，该词多用于描述情侣吵架后的冷战，以及社交媒体中刻意忽视消息的消极应对行为。数据显示微博相关话题中，83%的讨论聚焦于恋爱关系中的冷暴力现象。
词源故事 ETYMOLOGY
冷暴力的概念演变经历了三个阶段：
第一阶段（2000年代初）：作为家庭暴力的延伸概念被引入，最初用于描述婚姻中的精神虐待。2003年《中国妇女报》首次将冷暴力与肢体暴力并列讨论。
第二阶段（2010年社交媒体崛起）：随着微信的普及，'已读不回'成为新型社交礼仪难题。豆瓣小组出现'冷暴力受害者联盟'，用户分享被伴侣/朋友故意忽视的经历，相关话题阅读量突破2亿。
第三阶段（2020年情感综艺推动）：《再见爱人》等离婚综艺展示多对夫妻的冷暴力互动，节目片段在抖音获得380万点赞。心理学专家在节目中指出：'冷暴力本质是权力操控，沉默比争吵更具破坏性'。
典型案例包括：
1. 微博热搜#男友已读不回三十六小时#（2022）
2. 知乎万赞回答《冷暴力分手实操手册》引发的伦理争议
3. B站心理科普视频《五分钟识别冷暴力》播放量破千万
例句：
『这次吵架后他直接开启冷暴力模式，微信三天没回，电话也不接』
『办公室冷暴力太可怕了，整个部门的人集体装作我不存在』
DEFINITION
Silent Treatment refers to psychological harm caused through emotional distancing, verbal neglect, and communication refusal. It manifests in three primary contexts:
- Intentional indifference in intimate relationships
- Social exclusion in workplaces
- Ghosting/ignoring messages in digital communication
In contemporary Chinese cyber culture, this term predominantly describes post-argument cold wars between couples and the deliberate neglect of messages on social platforms. Similar to Western 'stonewalling' but with stronger cultural emphasis on relational harmony maintenance.
ETYMOLOGY
The evolution of 'Leng Baoli' reflects China's changing social dynamics:
Phase 1 (2000s): Introduced as an extension of domestic violence, initially describing psychological abuse in marriages. The concept gained legal recognition when China Women's News discussed it alongside physical abuse in 2003.
Phase 2 (2010s Social Media Era): WeChat's 'read receipt' feature created new social anxiety. Douban groups like 'Silent Treatment Victims Alliance' emerged, with members sharing experiences of being intentionally ignored - related posts accumulated 200 million views.
Phase 3 (2020 Reality TV Influence): Divorce shows like 'The Last Journey' visually demonstrated cold war dynamics between couples. Viral clips on Douyin received 3.8M likes, with psychologists commenting: 'Silent treatment is essentially power play - the absence of communication causes deeper wounds than arguments.'
Notable cases:
1. Weibo hashtag #BoyfriendReadButNoReply36Hours (2022)
2. Zhihu's controversial 10K-upvote guide 'How to Break Up Via Silent Treatment'
3. Bilibili's mental health video '5 Signs of Emotional Neglect' surpassing 10M views
Example usage:
'After our fight, he activated silent treatment mode - no WeChat replies for 3 days'
'Office cold violence is terrifying - my department collectively pretends I'm invisible'